Showing posts with label Being A Wife. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Being A Wife. Show all posts

Friday, March 2, 2018

TERbeli Katil

Assalamualaikum,

This is a very petty entry but I want to make a memory out of it so I will write anyway.

I have been renting in a same basically fully furnished house - for almost 10 years now. 10 years is a very long time having consider to see the same furniture, wall paint and layout of the same house. And some of the items in the house, literally have broken down, like one single bed in the single room and the queen bed in the middle room. The only bedroom set that is standing still are the ones in the master bedroom. I have been trying to hunt for a house (I think it is time for me to buy a house now) but I can't seem to give up the one we are renting in Bandar Sunway. It is like the center of everything. And it is like reaaaaaaaaally close to my office. But the property price in Bandar Sunway is like "Astaghfirullahala'zimmmmmmmmm". So, I put on hold dulu lah getting a property ni. 

Getting back to my bedroom story. We have been suffering back pains sleeping on the mattress provided by our landlord. It is a spring mattress and it is really old, I guess that at some part of the mattress, the springs poke out. So, I started to think of getting a new mattress. But then again, the bedframe pun macam nak roboh je but it is still standing, though. So I didn't think too much of getting one. This plan had been going on and off my head for nearly a year now. I put it on hold sebab I wanted to travel. I mean I want to go back to USS - my happy place. So I have been saving for basically everyone that I wanted to go with me - since everybody feels Singapore is a really expensive place. 

Couple of months a go, a new furniture joint opened near my house - supposedly they sell super cheap bedroom set particularly mattresses. My husband and I went to visit last night. Konon nak surveys sahaja sebab although it is very near to my house, we never seem to have time to visit the shop. So semalam pun pergi la tengok2. All of the sudden, my husband got excited. This one and that one and this one and that one. I was like, "what the hell has got into you?". In less than 20 minutes. we agreed to buy a bed. A bed! A bed frame and a mattress. "What on earth just happened?". I was sitting on a sofa, watching my husband made the deal. I was surprised to see him ecstatic like that. We definitely did not plan this. We didn't clear up the guest room to re-place the existing bed. We didn't clean our room to make space for the new bed. So, how? why? So in just a minute, I just lost RM1.5k for the bed that I didn't plan to buy. 

I insisted for the bed to be delivered that night because, you betcha I want to sleep in my new bed. So, we make space for the new bed and remove the old bed into the room which we want to make a guest room. Everyone slept very late last night because of this unintentional purchase of the new bed. So here is the photo of the bed co-joining with my toddler's because he is still breastfeeding.

I am also sad to notify that the theme in the master bedroom is white but the bed frame is black. I am just gonna weep now. Bye bye Singapore. 


Friday, August 12, 2016

Pre-Maternity Leave : Bila patut ambil?

Boss hands over a sheet to all Legal Assistants harini untuk selaraskan cuti Annual Leave masing-masing dan to prepare the Court's diary for my maternity leave so they can fix Trial dates efficiently.

I am here, stuck... tak tahu bila patut apply for Pre-Maternity Leave.

You see, I have a balance of the 16 days Annual Leave to date. 

I read few blog posts, ramai yang kata "buat apa cuti awal-awal, sayang Annual Leave, baik guna untuk lepas anak beranak nanti". Some of my friends juga berkata perkata yang sama. I could not agree more. Betul lah, lepas beranak nanti, anak nak cucuk vaksin la, deman la, you know macam macam hal kelak. 

TAPI, my maternity leave would start in December, membawa ke January 2017. Which means, if I don't utilise my Annual Leave, maka ianya akan burn. Sorry, company I tak amalkan Annual Leave ~ brought forward. Jadi, sekarang ni I dok berkira-kira bila sepatutnya nak ambil Pre-Maternity Leave? Kerana Maternity Leave begins when the baby is born.

In my situation, my EDD berubah-rubah dari 24th November ke 29th November dan yang paling latest, last check up 04th December. Haa, sikit punya jauh ke tu. If I took a week earlier than my earliest EDD, and if I betul-betul beranak on the 24th November, I would have 9 days Annual Leave kena burn.

If I took 14 days earlier than my earliest EDD, kalau tak jadi beranak on the 24th, katakan lah terlewat sampai 3 4 hari, I would not have AL to cover my leave before my Maternity Leave.

You get what I mean?

So, ini adalah antara dilemma ibu-ibu bapa-bapa dalam menangani isu bila nak apply cuti. 
What should I do? Apply a week earlier and forfeit my AL if I don't fully utilise them?
Apply 14 days earlier and hope Boss bagi muka bila I delay?

p/s : I went out on a "date night" with Husbter last night watching Suicide Squad. We are so lame that the last movie we watched together was "Dilwale", rasanya la. Eh ye ke? Ye kot. Since movie tu bising yang amat, si kecik dalam perut memerap meragam keje menendang je... Sorry la, nak. Tak sengaja...

Friday, October 30, 2015

Wife's World Problem


Saya tak pandai masak tapi saya suka memasak.
Tapi saya tak pandai pilih pilih barang kat supermarket. Stok tak reti nak tengok bahan-bahan. 
Sekali resipi stok guna jintan hitam jintan putih, daun ketumbar mana la nak reti.. wuwuwuuw

I cook occasionally.. simple dishes.
He said my lauk sardin sedap...
Tapi takkan hari hari nak bagi suami makan benda yang sama je setiap hari?

Stressss nya...
Nak bagi suami makan apa malam ni??
Baru 3 malam duduk bersama dah susah hati cam ni.

Oh saya dah ada suami! Ahaks!
Seronoknya bila ada orang sayang cam ni...